It's not fair to choose between what you know is available and what you're dreaming about, waiting until the last minute for love.
While you can win against someone in all sorts of games, it's impossible to win in love unless everyone wins.
On first dates, you're trying to get to know each other and learn if you'll be compatible, but usually people are a little guarded. This is saying that people guard their hearts carefully, but if you find love, don't let it end - don't come out of the relationship alone.
Although they're a wonderful person and she is grateful for their love, she's holding out for the perfect guy, like the mystery prize at the end of a game show. He's amazing, but she's waiting for the best of the best.